We present sweep-compatible, novel upwinding recipes for the bilinear discontinuous (BLD) finite element method (FEM) that allows lumped BLD to be used on adaptive mesh refinement (AMR) meshes for thick transport applications without adding additional degrees of freedom at hanging nodes that exist on refinement boundaries. We analyze the properties of the upwinding and lumping that are needed for BLD to get the thick diffusion limit on such meshes, present results demonstrating locking with the wrong recipe, and present results showing error convergence and robustness properties for two diffusive problems on a variety of AMR meshes.